There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.
Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.
You are destined to be with her, and God will guide you to her." Good luck finding this one in the Bible.
There is plenty of stuff about God's will for his people, God wanting good things for you, and God's ultimate plan.
There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian men.
Myth #1: "God has one woman picked out for you to marry.
There were also some biblical ideals that I held up for myself, for example, to have a "God-entranced vision" for all of life, which I got from John Piper and Jonathan Edwards.
Men who would be willing to follow Christ anywhere, no matter the costs.For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? ” That verse is about marriage, you might say, and you just want to have a date. If you are a Christ-follower and you want an awesome marriage one day to a godly Christian spouse, then it all starts with knowing and applying the wisdom of biblical principles in your dating life.For instance, you can look at the commands about living a holy life and apply them to your relationships, including dating and marriage.There are some myths out there that people assume to be gospel about dating.Christian culture is like any other in that we develop truisms that we accept without verifying.