"I am very open with my daughters, there is no topic in my house which is taboo." But Jamelia, 32, admitted having that conversation was one of the hardest things she's ever had to do."I sat her down and we spoke about it and it was the worst conversation I've ever had in my life, it was so difficult but I wanted her to come out of it with a positive outlook," she said."I told her I'm glad that I went through it because it means you don't have to."Twelve years on Jameila has chosen to forgive her abuser and she now considers him a friend.