I believe one could do what they want, when they want, without having to find a babysitter, for example. The people who don't want kids in or around my area (and surrounding cities, even as far as LA) are very small compared to the girls who want kids.
Any other dating sites, for people who don't want and have kids?
I'm childfree myself and I'm active on a couple of childfree forums.
I read horrible stories all the time from the childfree people who are single and dating — strangers telling you that you'll change your mind, single parents insisting that their kids are different and you'll love them, etc. I guess as a random personal introduction, I'm Adam. My hobbies are primarily reading, writing, computers, cars, and target shooting.
That is: All women want children—as one gynecologist told me, "That's what we're here for."But I don't want to.
But just like a formulaic movie plot, they all wanted kids. Age had something do with it: I was in my early 30s. And I would very nicely tell them they were dating the wrong woman, extricate myself, and move on. Two different, otherwise wonderful, handsome, and brilliant men said they "understood" after I opened up about my fears.
These men were in their mid-to-late 30s and early 40s. And then they each promptly sabotaged the birth control that I was very strict about.
The men also treated her as less able to make a commitment because she was not a mother and didn’t wish to become one.
She also talked about meeting men who at first said they didn’t want kids, but as the relationship progressed began to speak of their desire to be a father. I encouraged her to hang in there, and even to consider relocating to a more urban area where there would be more childfree men in the dating pool.